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Psychology Today: Is This Dynamic Ruining Your Romantic Relationship? By Seth J. Gillihan, Ph.D. with Polly Young-Eisendrath, Ph.D.

Psychology Today: Is This Dynamic Ruining Your Romantic Relationship? By Seth J. Gillihan, Ph.D. with Polly Young-Eisendrath, Ph.D.

Have you ever found yourself having the same argument with your significant other, over and over again? Maybe you've even had the same repetitive argument with multiple romantic partners over the years.

Why does this keep happening?

Psych Central Book Review: Love Between Equals: Relationship as a Spiritual Path

Psych Central Book Review: Love Between Equals: Relationship as a Spiritual Path

In her wedding vows for her second (or maybe third) marriage, my sister said, “…as long as this lasts” instead of “’til death do us part.” Was it wry and dark humor, or a pretty accurate reflection of how modern relationships play out? The American Psychological Associates notes that, in Western cultures, 90% of people marry by age 50, and 40-50% of those couples divorce. Divorce rates are even higher for subsequent marriages. Perhaps my sister’s vow reflected her own personal experience as well as an understanding of the landscape of our times.

The Two Ingredients for Deepening Love: What Buddhism Can Teach Us About Partnership and its Challenges

The Two Ingredients for Deepening Love: What Buddhism Can Teach Us About Partnership and its Challenges

Love, by its nature, requires two ingredients: knowing your beloved well and accepting your beloved deeply. By “knowing,” I mean a knowledge of the other’s being as it is. That knowledge may not be completely accurate, or even very accurate, but it must be “good enough” for the other person to trust the image reflected back, to feel accepted and at ease.

Mind Body Green: Most Couples Think THIS Is Bad For Their Relationship. They're Wrong

Mind Body Green: Most Couples Think THIS Is Bad For Their Relationship. They're Wrong

Most couples revel in closeness. Most of us see knowing everything about the other person, sharing everything together, and creating a true unison of souls as hallmarks of a strong relationship. But in this excerpt from her recently released book Love Between Equals: Relationships as a Spiritual Path, psychotherapist Dr. Polly Young-Eisendrath shows couples the power of honoring the space in between.