16 pages • In Real Dialogue, “Remaining Curious” helps you integrate the two fundamental skills of Speaking Yourself and Listening Mindfully within the larger perspective of an ongoing fresh and engaged attitude, even when there are repetitive emotional conflicts and painful differences. To remain open and curious about what you see and hear, when you want to close off, is an advanced form of Mindfulness practice. This practice allows you to hold a Mindful Gap so that love and interest grow and conflict becomes creative, serving the process of mutual discovery.